Friday, February 22, 2013

Are you kidding me – it’s Spring Break time again?



Six real-life, real cheap ways to keep the kids busy this year.

By Paula Sirois

Don’t ask me how I managed to forget about spring break. I must have blocked it out, like a bad memory or tragic event. Once again, I was without a plan, without a list of camps on speed-dial and without a clue as to what to do with the kids for a week. Same boat?  Don’t fret - you are now covered with real-life solutions.  All of them are for real people (read: those who are broke and work full time).

Be a tourist: So many of us just never get around to visiting nearby attractions. If you can take a day off, consider this break an opportunity to act like a tourist and check out local sites. Hit the parks, zoo, aquarium, museums, and other unique points of interest. Call or visit the Chamber of Commerce or AAA for some ideas and maps and hit the road!

Action it up:  Do your kids like sports? Instead of letting them just veg out on the couch watching game after game, get them active and involved.  The folks at OneUp have come up with a pretty smart solution that makes the entire family happy.  Log on to www.1up.me and prepare to be on the edge of your seat.  This is a first-of-its-kind mobile app connecting sports fans to the live event through a bingo-type game, and yes the whole family can play.  The app is free and the days of passively watching games are over.  Now you can play in real time with your favorite sports team.  Your team scores, your iPad lights up and you win!   The entire family gets involved and what was once a couple of hours of non-interaction with your kids becomes a live-action family game night.

Have them volunteer: Candi Wingate, president of Nannies4Hire, suggests having your children “adopt” a senior citizen from a local assisted-living home. “Visit that senior citizen often and nurture the relationship. It will teach your kids about giving as well as receiving nurturing. Simultaneously, your children will likely have priceless opportunities to learn about history from people who observed it firsthand.” Similarly themed ideas include signing up the family to help volunteer for a charity in your town or setting up a backyard/neighborhood co-op garden.


Pool your resources: If you can’t afford to take the time off to hang with your kids, consider enlisting your friends who are stay-at-home moms. They’re probably in the same situation, wondering what to do with the kids every day. They might jump at the chance to get the kids together. Ask if you could drop yours off for the day and be sure to offer to pay for the pizza delivery and/or trip to the ice cream store. While this will buy you one or two days, you’ll still need to fill the rest of the week.


Call on family: Phone your relatives (and Facebook your friends too) and see if any teenagers would be interested in a babysitting job. Offer to pick them up and drive them home and toss in a few bucks and maybe a gift certificate or two to Amazon and you’ll be set for the week.


Camp it: Many schools and churches offer low-cost day camp options for the kids. They can spend the day with arts and crafts, playing sports, and maybe even catching a much-needed nap. Make sure to call soon since they book up quickly.

Spring break comes every year, and like clockwork, I forget every year. But between a day of volunteering, a few days at a friend’s house, and a couple at home with some live-action games and some teenage cousins, my kids will have a fun and creative spring break—and yours can too.

Paula Sirois is a Florida-based writer who specializes in all things online, frugal living and family life and can be reached at paulapla@gmail.com

Is it possible to make Monday not stink?



4 totally doable solutions to the Monday blahs


By Paula Sirois

Oh Monday. There aren’t a whole lot of folk who love Mondays. Kids dread going back to school. The nine to fivers dread going back to work. It’s a day of having to pay bills or answer emails you avoided on Friday or sign forms or go to the dentist. When was the last time you heard someone say ‘Yippee, it’s Monday, can’t wait for today!” Never, right? Maybe it’s time we did something about it. Instead of a ho-hum day, followed by a blah dinner and ending with a boring night of nothingness, let’s spice it up a bit.

1.     Monday movie-thon: Why not make Monday’s movie night? You were going to veg in front of the TV anyway.  We can all just pretend it’s an extra weekend day and invite family and friends over for a movie night fest. Everyone gets a turn to own Monday night. They pick the movie, the dinner, the snacks and drinks. Move the couches and chairs around to watch theatre-style, dim the lights, hand out paper bags filled with popcorn and launch the week with style.

2.     Give and get: Make Monday’s volunteer night. There are plenty of organizations in your town that would love your help. Just go online and do a quick search, make a few phone calls (to guarantee that kids can help out too) and put it on your calendar. From working at food banks to visiting the elderly at nursing homes to sorting clothes at the Salvation Army, your family (or friends) will bond, expand your worldview, feel empowered with self-esteem and bonus -help others- at the same time. It’s a great way to spend quality time with one another, instill the value of altruism and start your week off with the warm fuzzies that come from volunteering.

3.     Game time anyone? Sports are a great double whammy (fun and healthy) activity and it doesn’t matter what sport you pick. Maybe have a standing tennis doubles game every Monday at 7pm, or go out on the lawn for some tag football. If you know someone is waiting on you to show up and play, it will help make you get changed and get going. Maybe have a male vs. female Frisbee game or set up a three-hole golf game in your backyard.  Live sports on TV Monday night?  No problem. If you’re up for fast-paced excitement, try your hand at something really different.  Head to www.1up.me  to get a free app that connects sports fans to the live event. So you’re not just sitting on the couch being passive and boring, you’re actually interacting with the game and other players in real time – and when your team wins, you win too! It’s one thing to watch a game on TV, (read: boring), it’s quite another to have your living room full of folk competing against you in real time and making split second decisions or actions that keep everyone on the edge of their seats!

4. Dealers choice: Similar to sports night, dealer’s choice is focused more on the cards. 
Gather up your family and friends for some Poker or 21. Hand out the chips, and shuffle the cards and offer up pizza and snacks and you’re good to go. Make sure everyone gets a chance to deal and pick the game. Be open to learning new games and even print out some rules of ones you’ve never tried before. Dealers choice can be a roving game where you start at your house this Monday and move to your buddies next Monday and so on.  If you want to set the mood, pick up some traditional poker hats, green felt boards and real poker chips. Poker certainly makes Mondays feel more like the weekend and hey, you may even walk away with a few bucks to boot.

Effective immediately, Monday is rescued from its hated status and elevated to a new and exciting home of family, friends and fun.


Paula Sirois is a Florida-based writer who specializes in all things online, frugal living and family life and can be reached at paulapla@gmail.com